What I typical do is give the bride a totally different look than the bridesmaids which means I usually reserve cut-crease or smokey eye makeup for the bride and I usually do much more dramatic lashes. I usually keep the bridesmaids lashes pretty standard and the bride I normally do something that has Bling Bling on the lashes (those little stone things).
I also focus more on the brides WANTS. THe bridesmaids are there to support the bride so I typically as her if she wants them to have color or if she wants them to have more neutral colors etc. With the pride I typically don't do much color unless they ask for it (On the eyes that is)...this also depends on the colors of the dress. I spend the most amount of time on the bride and reserve her for last and ensure that I have put my heart and soul into her look. I also put lots of shimmer if not on the lid, on the waterline and in the corners of the eye.
I hope that answers your question....im excited for us!
Can't believe I only just saw this! I like your approach, I think I will do the same thing!